Leather has always been part of the gay community, since bands of gay men broke off from the idea that gays were somehow naturally feminine, and chose leather as their emblem for a more manly, masculine look. It's not the most common look-button up shirts and khakis are still by far more prevalent, but you see them often enough that it's not uncommon. So why do some gay mean wear harnesses? And does it have a particular meaning when you see it? Harnesses are a popular item you see adorning many gays at pride festivals and parties.